By Kaname Naito
A foundational teaching in Japanese society is the phrase 人に迷惑をかけてはいけない (“Don’t cause trouble to others”), which remains central to the cultural moral code. This principle is one of the key social guidelines for behavior throughout Japan, shaping interpersonal relationships and contributing to what is often seen as the nation’s harmonious atmosphere.
The video delves into why this rule is considered so important—and how its influence manifests in daily life, from social interactions to workplace etiquette. It explores the origins of this mindset, examining how it reflects both in personal responsibility and the emphasis on collective well-being. The concept of 和 (wa, “harmony”) is closely tied to this teaching, as social harmony is often preserved by discouraging behavior that may inconvenience others around you.
However, the video also asks viewers to critically examine this ideal. While not causing others trouble sounds like an impeccable virtue, the presenter reflects on some of its limitations—for example, how the strong aversion to causing nuisance might stifle open communication or lead to personal stress. By dissecting these nuances, viewers gain deeper insight into Japanese cultural values, their impact on society, and where there may be room for change or reinterpretation.
Understanding this golden rule is essential for visitors, residents, and anyone interested in Japanese society, as it colors everything from queuing at train stations to office life to the ways Japanese people approach conflict and cooperation.